If you are reluctant to work with your spouse on your marriage, it could be because you have already had a bad experience in marriage counseling. Perhaps, you are feeling hopeless already about any sort of improvement happening. Or maybe you are embarrassed to be vulnerable or afraid you'll "fail."

Just know this is such a safe way to explore new ways to bring change in your life. The fact that you are dedicating time to improve your relationship will in itself bring a sense of hope and connection.

Lesson Summary

If you're hesitant to work on your marriage with your spouse, it might be due to previous negative experiences with marriage counseling. This could lead to feelings of hopelessness or embarrassment, making you reluctant to be vulnerable or afraid of failure.

However, embracing the opportunity to seek help together can offer a safe space to explore new ways to bring positive change:

• Dedicating time to improving your relationship can foster hope and connection.